What it's like to love someone in a second language

“So, do you speak to each other in English or Spanish?” is up there as one of the questions I’m most frequently asked bilingual relationship — typically by curious strangers, although sometimes by friends who clearly haven’t paying that much attention. slightly bizarre, I can understand the curiosity factor about romance in a second language . (And hey, it’s a better, less problematic question than “So, which one of you needs a visa?” Spoiler alert: neither of us.) I guess it’s to be expected when you’re a Spanish-speaking British woman and your boyfriend is an English-speaking Mexican man. Long story short, I’m happy to answer the question: We mainly speak to each other in Spanish. As a native English speaker, this can come some unexpected frustrations. Primarily speaking in a second language can often leave me feeling confused and angry — especially in the heat of an argument, when I throw the word estúpido around, thinking it has the same easy breezy meaning as “stupid” in conversational English. (It does .) And don’t even get me started on innocuous but minor mistranslations —like when I think embarazada means “embarrassed” (it means “pregnant”) — […]

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